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Co-Workers from Hell

coHi guys. Hope you are all well. Now I think by now y’all already now me well and how I write only about my true experience. It could be mine personally or from my family members. So when we get jobs, we usually have this vision where every thing and everyone is just perfect. You to work with a smile and leave with a smile. Sadly, that is a reality to very, and I mean very few people, the number is almost negligible. You meet characters at the office bruh, and from that you can clearly see whether your life at work is going to be a comedy, drama, or horror movie. These are the characters I star with…..still not sure of the genre of my movie though

  1. Deskmate=BFFs co-worker

I share a desk with a lady at work and from day one she has somehow assumed that since we share a desk were are automatically buddies. She follows me to lunch, to the bathroom, she shares her tofu sandwiches with me….everyday. I think it sweetish but its borderline creepy. When she starts asking about the outfit i will wear to work the next day so we can match, or escorting me home when she lives all the way across town from me. *Cough Cough* Its time for me to get a personal desk.

2. Whining Wendy

The co-worker that is NEVER happy about anything in life. She just whines and whines and whines until your ears bleed. If you hang around with them long enough you may just catch the Whining bug too and become depressed. whineIts their awful spouse, their unappreciative children, their unanswered prayers, their two timing friends! Well, dah, no one wants to be around a whiner! Its their low salary, their long hours of work, them not getting laid!! I don’t wanna hear that crap! I got my own load to deal with but I chose to suffer in silence. hell, if I let it all out people be starting a charity fund just for me. Repel this co-worker like a sour fruit.

3. Charming Chandler aka the user.

 Yep you know him. The one guy that flashes his perfect pearly white teeth at you and you are ready to sell your kidney for him. He uses his charms and looks to get sweet old people like you to do all the work for him. At the end of the day his work load is at -50 coz you felt sincere enough to help him with today’s and tomorrow’s workload. And your situation?? Let’s just say your somewhere between carrying your work home or staying at the office till morning?ch It sucks!! Like you constantly ask yourself is he genuinely very persuasive and sleek …or is he using some kind of witchcraft? Listen, here’s a trick for you, when he comes by to your desk and he flashes his perfect smile at you turn your head to the right, turn your head to the left, and turn your head to the right again. And repeat until he goes away. Remember to have your eyes closed all this time coz you need to remain strong. Looking into his pool of blue eyes will not help!

4. Invisible Amy. 

Hahahaha have you ever had a staff meeting and the boss asks if everyone is there, people do a quick head count and y’all confidently reply “yes”. Then the door squeaks and in comes the one colleague that people always forget about. They are always super quiet and have their desks at a far corner of the office. You practically never hear their voices and they are constantly having their heads down. Why?? They are super timid its unhealthy. Invisible Amys need a boost in self confidence and just genuine welcoming smile. This will straight up take care of their invisibility syndrome.

5. Boss’s pet aka Snitchsn

That one person that is always favoured by the boss even if they do…… absolutely nothing. These people can be so annoying! They know that they can get away with anything since they have the big boss on their side. They feel like they should be called boss #2 or something. Irritating little people. Usually they have nothing better to do than dig for office drama and gossip and play the snitch. No one wants to ever be around these people, but when they are they have on the most fake pasted smile. The good side is that it’s a workplace and people need to speak out whenever they feel uncomfortable. So when the snitch comes along, you have a the right to tell it like it is, you don’t appreciate their attitude and the only time you may talk to them is when it is absolutely necessary. If not they should just respect your space.

So these are the types of guys that I personally have to be around for most part of the week. Sometimes its easy but sometimes I feel like just walking out like they do in the movies. In the end all I usually do is have a woosah moment and then treat myself to a nice looooong lunch. I believe that everyone can learn to get along better once we know each others attitudes and behaviors. Which co-workers do you face at work on the daily? 

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FACEBOOK MAMAS. . .

 

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Hi guys!  Today I would like to introduce you to the different mummys on Facebook! Yes, our beloved mothers that are into the social media frenzy…..some a little more than others. There are many kinds of different mums on FB and I thought just to categorize them a bit to see on which group my own mamito falls into. I know both our moms and dads are on there but my perceptions tell me there are more moms than dads. So these are the types of Mamas that I have come across.

WannaBe BFF Mama– the type of mama that gives herself the best friend role to her daughter.  She will be liking all your pictures, posting pictures of you and her together, you know, the ones you look fab in ….and the ones you don’t. You can even let her take over the Throw Back Thursday posts for you because she got plenty to share. She will never let anyone bully you or annoy you on FB! She will tear them down and make sure they never much as peek at your wall again. Sometimes it can be suffocating and embarrassing when she friend requests all your friends too. This is the sorta mama that we ignore at times and absolutely love sometimes

Paranoia Mama– the mama that believes that all social media is Satan’s playground. She believes that every person that sends you a friend request is either a stalker, pedophile, serial killer or all the above. momShe has trust issues with all the unfamiliar faces that pop up on your posts and pictures that she does not know. It can be really difficult to explain to her that if one takes the right precautions Facebook is pretty safe. With this mom, be ready to take taekwondo classes and get Mace with all your Christmas and birthday presents throughout the year. She trusts no one and that ain’t going to change anytime soon.

I-can-be-17-again-mama– Yoh, I know y’all know what I am talking about. I am talking about the situations where your friends can’t tell the difference between you and your mom! She is all up in FB doing exactly if not more than what you are doing. Gossiping and posting funny GIFs or memes, posting bathroom selfies; using that slang like WTF or YOLO! I mean, Facebook is not a time portal people. You have to unfortunately act your age. Not cool mama, not cool.

Another-platform-to-discipline-you mama– Constant curses and screams is all you get from this one. It’s like she doesn’t believe actual face to face conversations anymore and instead takes to FB to yell at you and call you out. And she does this in the middle of the most random post. Like I mean, you couldn’t just tell me to take out the trash in person? Heck you could have even texted me but no, you had to put me on glass so that all my FB friends would know I forgot to do my chore? Really ma? Not cool.

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I’m-not-here mama– Yep the invisible one, the one mom most people would wish to have. She is never all up in your wall and harassing your friend requesters. She is simply invisible. She takes to her own life on Facebook and interacts with only her own social circle. She stays clear off your radar and you barely notice she is there.  But tread softly because we all know she is up in there reading all your posts and stuff cause yeah she is a mom. Some call it giving you your own space, but others might say that it would be nice to share a photo or poke each other once in a while. C’mon ma, we can share the spotlight….as long as you don’t shine too much.

Perfect FB Mama– The mom we all wish we could have. She is like a normal Facebook user. She does the normal FB things. She comments, likes, shares tags you normally, just like how any of your sisters or friends might, (well not exactly exactly). fb momBut this mama never embarrasses you intentionally; she supports your positive statuses and has all your friends wishing they had a mom like yours. A mama that actually knows how to private message you when she sees or reads something she does not approve of. She is the coolest and the best and has the hang of what Facebook really means.

With all the above, I think it’s safe to guess where your mummy falls under. But regardless of her FB class, we still love them unconditionally. They may not be Facebook savvy but they sure got the hang of being a treasure to all of us! Love all the mamas out there…xoxo

 

WHEN BITCHINESS IS INVERSELY PROPORTIONAL TO BEAUTY..

prettyHi guys, let me teach you a new thing I discovered. ‘Did you know that your level of bitchiness is inversely proportional to your beauty when you have Brazilian weaves,  foundation and Chanel perfumes and other material things as constants?’ In simpler terms “The nastier your attitude, the uglier you get”. I know some time somewhere you might have experienced this equation in person. Remember that time when you saw this beautiful lady walking along the street? She was like a goddess…until you bumped into her by accident and she opened her foul mouth and started spitting out venom! For me, in such situations, people turn from the beautiful Tyra Banks to the Grinch in nano seconds. When she starts hauling out those curses and sneering at you, admit it you see beyond her fake lashes and butt and see her like she truly is…UGLY.       

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It is sad that this happens so often, I meet ugly people everyday! I met one just last week, at a client’s office. She was at the front desk. My first vision, Christina Milian look-a-like with her perfect brows, her glossy lips and maxi dress. Until I asked for assistance! Just an innocent smile and polite hello turned her into one of the oaks from The lord of the Rings!

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She clicked her tongue and rolled her eyes at me while giving me the visitors’ book to sign! Why? What did I do? It’s your job to attend to me, isn’t it? Really guys, just because you are caked in makeup and dressed in killer outfits it will not hide your true ugliness. It is not sufficient to suppress all your nastiness and funky attitudes. The moment people are like

WTF

know that you have successfully revealed the dragon underneath all that MAC concealer and “Dollypink” powder blush! Some ladies then go ahead and start straightening their wigs and applying their gloss and I am like “You don’t need more makeup! You need to google for your nearest Exorcist or something cause the way your face contorted right now just ain’t right!”

*Sigh* The only solution is to be beautiful inside and out. Then you will see, that sometimes you don’t even need the makeup and all that glitters and gold. Your inner beauty will radiate all the way to the outside.All the material things will just be adding an extra sometimes not necessary oomph! Well, at least that is what LadyChi thinks. You?

SIMPLE BUT FUN CHRISTMAS GAMES

It’s Finally Here!!!!

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It is that festive time of the year to reflect, appreciate, accept and march ahead.

REFLECT on the events that made your year. How the year started, how you grew and changed and if you accomplished what you had hoped you would.

APPRECIATE all your successes.  Everything you achieved. All the times you laughed, smiled, kissed or hugged someone, got patted on the back. Be grateful and say thank you. Give back to the community or some random acts of kindness. Try to remain in the good books to set you off into the new year.

ACCEPT your failure and critics and all the bad things that happened. I know you screamed in anger, cried your lungs out, locked yourself in your room, beat the daylights out of someone, whatever went wrong, accept that sh*t. No one has a perfect life. The struggle is real. We learn from challenges and become better people.

And Finally….Rock on into the New Year!!!!

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Christmas is meant to be a festive and joyous time; a final chance to end the year in good spirits. I shall share a few games that will cost you as little as zero pennies but will ensure much laughter and cheer during the holidays. It is a wise way to save more money on decent presents for friends and family and not necessarily on entertainment.

So here are three games that definitely add that magic touch to the Christmas cheer.

  1. Who’s wearing Santa’s hat?Santas Hat

This is a silly beyond silly game but it is awesome and super fun! All you need is a Santa hat. All you do is place it over one top corner of the television. Once this is done, all you have to do is to look out for when someone on the screen appears to be wearing the hat. Every time this happens, you can choose to cheer in different ways. For example, if you are a couple playing this game, every time you see someone wearing the hat you may kiss! If you are a bunch of jolly friends, you can choose to have shots instead. For family fun though, you can opt to share a candy cane or simply just a round of hugs. This game can be played for a day, a week or the whole holiday.

Recap of items required: 1 Santa hat

2 . A whole lot of liquor……or love.

  1. Dirty Santa

In this game, all players need to bring a wrapped gift to the party. Make sure that the gift is wrapped in such a way that nobody can guess what it is e.g. in a box. These gifts can be placed under the tree like normal gifts. Next, a person writes down numbers (according to number of the group) and places them in a bowl…folded and mixes well. Every player draws a paper. The player with the number 1 gets to pick a present first. The person with the number two is next to pick a gift. However #2  can either choose a gift from under the tree or steal the gift from the first person. And so the game continues, meaning that the last person can steal a gift from any of the other players. But if a gift is stolen three times, it has to be removed from the game. The game is more fun when the gifts are outrageously ridiculous! So go out and buy your worst. Have fun!

Recap: Needed items: 1. A wack present from everyone

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Xmas 23. Cheers to that!

Now we all know that nothing completes Christmas like a good old Christmas movie!! We have How the Grinch stole Christmas, A Christmas Carol, Elf and the list goes on. The game is simple, when the family and friends are all snuggled in to watch a beautiful movie, you decide on a word or phrase or action that every time you see or hear it, you have a cheers moment. Of course, if it is just the adults you can have glasses of beer or eggnog and wine. If there are children in the picture, then you can have juices. So for example, if you choose to watch the classic Home Alone movie, you could choose to have a “cheers moment” every time a bad guy has an accident. Or it could be every time you hear a Christmas song…its absolutely up to you.

Recap: Needed items: A good old classic Christmas movie 😉

So those are three games from me that won’t cost you much but will lighten your holiday spirits. Hope you have fun!! For more games and fun stuff just click HERE

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

 

5 CHEATERS YOU MAY FORGIVE…AND….5 CHEATERS TO NEVER GIVE THE TIME OF DAY …OR NIGHT AGAIN!!

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Cheater: A person that acts dishonestly or unfairly to gain an advantage: informal be sexually unfaithful according to the online Oxford Dictionaries.  Just sexually unfaithful? Well maybe for some people…but as for me; no flirting with, no texting especially sexting, no kissing! I don’t care if there was no tongue action, booboo I don’t care if you didn’t open your mouth, hell it could have been a peck on the lips, it is still cheating to me. No e-mailing, no getting cozy and role playing on Facebook or any other social platform. No reminiscing old times with an ex! No giving some strange random girl a shoulder to cry on.  And trust me my list goes on and on and on, I be like Angela from Why Did I Get Married Too, she explains it all too well.

People have many reasons as to why they chose to step out on their partners and whether they are worth forgiving is debatable. From my own personal experience as well as close friends around me I have been able to categorize a list of different types of cheaters. In my books, I have separated then into two groups Cheater you MAY forgive and Cheaters to NEVER forgive. All this according to what LadyChi thinks. Do you agree?

Those you MAY Forgive

  1. Drunken cheater – if he ain’t an alcoholic and he barely gets tipsy on nights that he goes out with friends then there is more to this situation. So many explanations as to why he went past his usual drinking limit and this may be the cause of his odd behavior. It can even be that some of his dudes thought he was more fun if he was a little bit high and spiked his drink. Then things got wild and before he had his head straight, he was in a big mess. Whatever the reason may be, when he comes home and is man enough to tell you what happened or you find out somehow and he begs you for forgiveness. Maybe . . . just maybe you may forgive him. Then you can go ahead and find out what caused the out of character behavior.  I know some guys will use alcohol as an excuse to cheat but ladies I know you know your man, so I know you will now when he is being straight with you.
  2. No-action-in-the-bedroom cheater – Ladies it is no secret that you have to hold your man down or else he is going to seek that comfort elsewhere. You can be holding out on him for certain reasons known to you, but everyone needs a bit of intimacy, and from what I think, men more than women. It could be that you are tired all the time from work or you had a huge fight and he is on punishment. Don’t make it a long one and make an effort to squeeze the last ounce of energy from your reserves so you can enjoy a night with your man. Cause when your bedroom becomes a freezer he is going to look for warmth somewhere else. When this happens and you can admit that he cheated because it was your fault, it doesn’t really justify what he did but it sure made it easier for him. You may forgive this one and learn how to spice up you love life and keep your man happy.
  3. The-80/20-rule-really-exists cheater- This one is the one that so clearly knows his has made a mistake. He went chasing down someone who seemingly looked better than you. He thought he was going to have more than what he has at home but as a matter of fact, it is way, way, way less. So his theory was a big flop and he has most definitely learnt that what he already has is by far everything that he could possibly ever want and need. He has had to learn the hard way to appreciate you more. I think this one you may forgive as well. I don’t think he will want to take the gamble ever again. He will treasure what he has and salute the 80/20 rule.
  4. The-long-term-committed cheater- 10 years down the drain? What about the kids? He is your high school sweetheart? If you have been with this guy for some time (and his none of the below suckers) and this happens, sometimes it is not wise to break it off in such emotional panic. A lot changes over time and most people let their relationships lose that exciting spark. They fall into a life of mundane and routine and frankly boredom. As the no action in the bedroom cheater, your man will look for excitement somewhere else. But if you two still truly love each other and if the guy is willing to fight for you and repent his sins, begs for forgiveness and vows to spend the rest of his life making it up to you, then you may just be able to forgive this one. I am almost certain there is something worth fighting for. Y’all probably need a family vacation and definitely need to renew your vows. Do something fun and romantic to remind yourselves why you are still together after many years of life’s curve-balls.
  5. The-first-time-offender cheater – he might have stepped out on you for various reasons, for lack of rational thinking perhaps. If he does not fall in any of the below categories, sit and talk to your man. You may choose to forgive this one if his first time . . . will be his last time. And if you make the warning firm enough, I think he will be a good boy and behave. I think there is a first time for everything and committing a mistake is not a mistake….the mistake is repeating the mistake (did I say that right? Direct quote from Swahili…kosa si kutenda kosa, kosa ni kurudia kosa)

Given that none of the above cheater fall into the groups below, I think they may be worth forgiving  and working it out…

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Forget

  1. Your-best friend/sister/mother is-hotter-than-you cheater- kick this one to the curb. He clearly doesn’t care about your feelings and so he doesn’t even bother himself to search outside of your social circle. I can’t forgive someone that would cheat on me with my own sister or friend.I would not want this guy around at all. While you are having fun at the family Christmas party, he is checking out all your cousins and friends. This one is mean and did not stop to think that the worst possible thing to do when you cheat on a girl, is to cheat with someone who she is super close to. This is not cool at all and I will not forgive this one
  2. The chronic cheater- well what can I say, cheated once shame on you, cheated twice shame on me? No, shame on you still! I decided to give you a second chance and you threw it in my face. Shame on you for being such a hypocrite and not realizing what a treasured gem I was! This is the type that cheats out of habit; he probably can’t stop doing it even if his life depended on it. You will shed so many tears until you come to realize that it is not worth it. Twice is enough to raise a red flag.
  3. No-remorse cheater- Yes! The brutal one. That one who shows no regrets and blames you for his actions. He acts so casual about it and you will never hear him say “I’m sorry.” And if he miraculously does say sorry, it sounds more like “I am sorry I got caught,” And that is all there is. There is nothing sincere about this guy and he is a hypocrite. It is as almost as though he was proud of what he had done and given the chance he would probably do it over and over again. Well I would give him a round of applause and stroke his ego all the way out the door.
  4. The perfect cheater – the one that is too sleek and smooth in his ways that he never gives you any reason to doubt. Always home on time, leaves you with his phone, lets you answer it for that matter! Invites you to come with when he gets invited to office cheat 3parties and stuff. You will be their praising your faithful man when all you got is a sly and cunning son of a gun.  This is one deadly human being. This means he has perfected the art of lying to your face! God knows the awful truths that you will most likely never know. If you ever somehow manage to catch this criminal, I mean you somehow come to know that he has had his affair for some ten months….. I don’t know what you will still be waiting for.
  5. The-more-than-one-mistress-at-a-time cheater – This is the ultimate player! When you finally see his true colors, he got you wondering if you were his main lady or one of the seven side-chicks. This cheater always gets easily caught because most of the time he can’t even say your name   cheat 1  on the phone for some reason, he calls you by a different name or he will forget your name altogether. Do not trust a guy that has a strangely huge number of female relatives with five or six middle names each. Yes, he can apologize when he gets caught and he will show and prove to you that he has broken it off with all four of them but the question is….are you certain they were just four?

So there you have it, LadyChi’s list

To ladies whom have been cheated on, sorry about that. Life sucks sometimes but you have a decision to make at the end of it all, keep or ditch. Hope you choose well. It is totally understandable if you never want to see the guy again because betrayal hurts. But remember to forgive and let him and all that hurt go. If you are the cheater! Well I am sure you have your reasons but it’s still shameful and I would not encourage it. If you want to be with someone else then just say so. It is not worth it breaking someone’s trust and lying to them. In my part, the top half guys may be worth forgiving and most likely will never repeat the mistake again. Although it might also be that it was not your fate and you may choose to walk away. But the bottom half!!! I find more deadly but… in very *special* situations you may choose to forgive them…Everyone’s decision is their own…the above is just what LadyChi thinks….Leave me a comment on what you think….

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PRETENDING TO BE A SMARTPHONE ZOMBIE…..

sma    Okay Okay now this is something that I just had to share. I want to know if I am the only one that thinks it is totally ridiculous. We are in the era of smartphones, I will be an idiot to deny that fact. These things got us walking and sitting around like zombies. smpfThey help us in so many ways and they definitely get the work done. They have everything on them that can entertain us better than the life that is going on around us. This includes, “Social Networks”; the murderers of actual face-to-face conversations and the killers of the true meaning of socializing. If you aint tweeting, you are chatting on whatsapp, if you aint chatting you are browsing and liking them photos on Facebook, or better yet, you are uploading yours on Instagram. That’s for the youngsters, as for the old folks, people are checking their e-mails, people are always reading people’s profiles on LinkedIn. Hey it never stops! But I am led to believe that although these smartphone-obssessed individulas exist there are also people that don’t live in the network, they barely exist in the net world. People like me. People who can still function if they happen to forget their phones at home;those who can still get through the day even if they had their phone stolen; those who don’t burst into tears because they got only one retweet in the last hour. And we are perfectly normal. I mean yeah we pop into them sites and networks from time to time because we do not live under rocks, but it is just that our immune systems happen to work a little better in stopping us from becoming full blown addicts. smartp 2However, there are these funny individuals that don’t really get it that you are perfectly normal if you live through a minute without having your eyes glued to your phone screen. I mean they crack me up. I swear I have seen people do this on countless occasions, this is the sequence –opens gallery-scrolls first five pics-closes gallery-goes to alarm settings-puts on alarm-puts off alarm- checks messages (nothing new)-checks FB (no new status)-goes to notifications (no new notifications)- starts rearranging the apps icons (things move from left to right then back again-goes to twitter-writes an entire sentence only to erase it all and quit-starts the sequence all over again. WHY!!!!!!! You are from work, probably tired as hell, take some time to relax and appreciate the cool breeze that is caressing your face. When was the last time you looked up at the stars? Take a look around you, spot the idiots that are pretending to busy on their phones and have yourself a good laugh. Your child is trying to tie their own shoe laces did you notice? I did that is why I bent down and helped them out while you were liking pictures on Insta. So yeah, on those rare moments when your phone is not beeping or vibrating take a look around, appreciate life and smile. Well, at least that is what I think you should do… On which end do you see yourself?

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Silence Means This Is Ok?

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WHY IS THE “BOARD” QUIET?

I see London

I see France

I see someone’s underpants

Or should I say

“Duka la mzungu li wazi,

Launza mchele na nazi Kitumbua si andazi”

Phew, I would like to say I have seen it all but I know there is still a lot more funky stuff coming our way, Sadly, this is just the beginning. I don’t understand where the problem is. Is it that our mothers these days don’t teach us better? Because I mean, charity does begin at home right? But then again, the peoplethat pull off embarrassing stunts like this are grown a** women that know exactly what they be doing. So more or less they are low-life attention seekers and public nuisances.   ShamePlain and simple. No one in their right mind would want to expose their booty, UNLESS they are advertising their business.

Biashara matangazo!” Right?  But just a little bit of advice, next time you want to bounce you bare behind in people’s faces you might want to do something about that cellulite booboo. Your behind could do with some of the make-up on your face as well….Shame 4

Fine I can deal with that, but I want to ask one question, how come I don’t hear anyone going berserk over the indecent behavior that went on in our backyard? In a place we know we are groomed and brought with strict and inflexible norms and customs? Instead you see a mere wardrobe malfunction that happened in a country that more or less doesn’t give a hoot even if the whole nation decides to stroll the streets half naked? I mean WHAT?! You all are not serious. If you are going to stand for some sort of ethics and what not, I suggest you get your act together and start disciplining the wrong that goes on under your own roof before you panic over accidents that happen in your neighbour’s house.  And don’t be biased  either!!

And that’s exactly l what I think…

Bad Days

Bad Days

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Everyone has these days from time to time. Some people even more often than others. I am talking about those days when you just wish that you could go back to bed; wake up again and start the day anew. It gets so intense sometimes that it makes the hardcore want to cry. Picture this, it is raining; you are running late; your car won’t start and the public transport people are on strike.bad day Or imagine this, you get into a fight with your spouse; you forget your important presentation at home; you get sad news that your favorite uncle passed away but your boss doesn’t care and you still get that stupid written warning. WTF!! How do you stay positive throughout the day? How do you continue to smile and live through the looong lousy 24hrs? One can begin to speculate that you have woken up with an overly mischievous leprechaun on your shoulder that drains all your good luck and controls the way you react to the situation.
lolThey are just sitting there, grinning from ear to ear like a Cheshire cat. They make you see red and it just becomes a domino effect; one bad event leading to another…and another.

Well this is what keeps me from crawling under a rock and staying there or wailing out like a baby

 1. Take deep calming breaths. Yes you have to “Woosa” that sh*t. People usually don’t think rationally when they panic and end up doing or saying things they will damn right regret.

woosa2. Close my eyes and imagine. Imagine that I am in a world with no rules, boundaries or limitations. Your car won’t start,  so what? You can fly, man. Well it is usually something silly and impossible, so it most definitely will help you smile.

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    3. Call or talk to someone who has that God-given talent of always making you smile or laugh. I always call home and talk my two year old daughter. She usually brings the smile back.

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      4. Make up a mantra for yourself. Simple words that you truly believe in. Repeat them a few times and let them actually change the way you feeling. And remember that a day only has 24hrs, they are bound to end some time.

  5.Listen to your favorite music! Whether it is Gospel and uplifting or one of these “KELIS-caught Out There” . I am a music lover and music helps me heal, cope and endure. I am not sure if it’s a fact but to me music is therapeutic, it whacks away all the stress I usually feel.

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So that’s on my side. That’s what Lady Chi thinks can help lighten a Blue Monday.

What are some of your tricks of getting through the crappy days? Please comment below, I hope to find some more ideas.

Rain Rain Go Away

Rain Rain Go Away

Rain Rain Go Away

Come Again another day

Little children want to play

Rain Rain go away

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There, we have been singing this song since we were knee high. And to be honest I still close my eyes and cross my fingers while singing this song to date. Yes, that is how much I hate the rain. I would rather walk in the blistering sun that be drenched to my under-garments on any given day. I hope this rainy season is over because I have had a lousy couple of days because of it. It wrecked havoc in my daily routine and I was not pleased.rain-731313__180 People say rain is a blessing from God? Okay, then why don’t you go and dance away right in the middle of it all; make sure you don’t miss a single drop of the blessing; instead of running your guts out to the nearest cover? It is a blessing, fine, but an entire week is way more than enough. I am out to prove a point. So I am going to make a list. The Pros and Cons off rain.

Pros

  • Farmers can have good harvest
  • Helps to reduce dust
  • Free water to wash bikes, bajajis (Uh yes, I know you have seen this too)
  • Free water for household use (I know the pain of having to buy buckets of water everyday)
  •  Electricity (Not sure, hydro-electricity?)
  • Given that your boss is an amazing person, you can get an excuse to work from home
  • Well let me just say “It’s baby making weather”

Cons

  • Floods
  • All construction projects come to a halt
  • Traffic
  • Clothes don’t dry
  • Moldy slippery surfaces
  • Outbreak of illnesses
  • Mud
  • Chance to open up sewage chambers, yay!
  • Embarrassing leaking houses
  • Things rot, man!
  • Mosquitoes
  • Power cuts

Well, that is my list. That is what Lady Chi thinks. What about you? Rain or Sunshine?

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